There are a number of Christmas Carols that have the phrases “Good Will Toward Man” and “Peace On Earth” in their lyrics. I really believe those words should be far more than just lyrics in a song that are just thought about during the Christmas holiday season, then forgotten the rest of the year.
There wasn’t much good will toward man during the recent election. These days peace of earth feels more like an impossibility than ever before, yet every once and a while I have been lucky enough to see just a glimmer of good will toward man and peace on earth. Where, you may ask, did this happen? Well, it happened at a horse show while I was standing in the middle of the ring judging the show. That’s right - a horse show is where I saw peace on earth and felt good will toward man.
This year I had the pleasure of judging a Fun Horse Show that was being held as a fund raiser for a charity and that’s where I saw the glimmer. I have seen it before at other fun horse shows in the past too. As in the past I was amazed by the, yes, good will towards men, women and children at the show.
Standing there in center ring I couldn’t help but notice, not only, all the different breeds of horses, but all the differences in the people there as well. Their differences were of little importance to anyone the day of horse shows.
There were people of all ages, genders, races, religion and, I image, political beliefs, but nobody cared. There were non-horse people there that day and, again, nobody cared. We were just a group of people sharing common interest in horses and sense of community. We were all their to help raise funds for a good cause which would help our fellow man.
I think horses give people a different perspective, in a sense. As one young man, who was helping out commented, “ horses don’t care about color or anything else,” and he had that right. Horses just look at one another as horses not at the color, or breed or where they came from they just know they are all part of the greater herd. Wouldn’t it be great if humans had that great gift?
It just feels, of late, that we are so divided. Even friends and family seem to be taking sides on issues and missing what family and friends are all about. . That day of that show I didn’t feel that at all. What I felt was people putting aside differences and enjoying one another on and the passions for horse they all share. There was friendship and camaraderie that day.
I found Peace on Earth and Good Will Toward Man in small corner of the world, a horse show are arena . It gives me hope that maybe someday we will see Peace on Earth and Good Will Toward man around the world.
I wish you all a wonderful Holiday season with family and friends gathering near. For those of you like my family who may have lost a love one or perhaps life has been diffcult this year I wish you strength this holiday season and some peace this coming year.
Good Will Toward Men and Peace On Earth .
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Today there seems to be some confusion about what collection is exactly. There seems to be some confusion these days about how to achieve collection , as well.
There are a number of people giving clinics out there today who give people the impression that collection is just the horse putting his nose down and that it’s achieved by asking the horse to back up, tying his head down or reaching around and pulling the horses head around to the stirrup. This isn’t collection or achieving collection.
Okay, for those who are about to stop reading and move on, because “I don’t need to know this I just trail ride” or who are saying “that’s for Dressage riding not Western”, not true. Every horse should be able to collect his/her gaits whether ridden at Prix St. George level dressage, reining or just going up the trail. So just keep reading.
Collection is basically the bringing together of both the front and rear of the horse for the purpose of lifting and lightening the forehand. Collection is when a horse carries more weight on his hind legs than his front legs - which is what is meant by lightening the forehand. The horse has engagement from his hindquarters which means the energy to move the horse forward is coming from his hindquarters rather than just from his front legs or shoulders.
When the horse has his hindquarter engaged he will have a slight bend at the poll, you will see that the high point of his hindquarters is slightly lower than the withers and you feel like you are riding “uphill”, so to speak, rather than “ downhill”.
How do you achieve collection? Well, you want to start out asking for a collection at the walk.That’s the easiest for both you and the horse. Once the horse understands what you are asking you can move on to the trot and even the canter/lope if you like, but lets just talk about the walk and trot for now.
Ask your horse to walk and as he does take a slight contact with the bit , not enough to bring him to stop, but just a very light contact. At the same time apply slight pressure with your legs. When you do this your horse should bend slightly at the poll and you should be able to feel the impulsion coming from his hindquarters. It should feel as if he is driving himself “ uphill” with his hindquarters. You should feel the horse literally lighten up in your hands even though you have more contact with the bit.
I always say I don’t care if you’re riding down the trail or in an arena, showing or just pleasure riding your horse should learn to collect his/her gaits because it makes for a more pleasurable ride for you and the horse. Collection should be part of any horse’s training, for your sake as well as the horse’s.
Friday, November 30, 2012
Getting Back in the Saddle After a Bad Experience When Your a Seasoned Rider
by Cheryl Childs
We all know that old saying “If you fall off a horse get right back on
the horse,” and that’s good advice, but, honestly, getting back on the horse
immediately is the easy part. It is a day or two later that things become more
difficult, because that is when fear sets in - after you have had some time to
think about what happened. There are also times when you aren’t able,
physically, to get back on the horse. When you have to wait to recover from an
injury it becomes even more difficult to get back in the saddle. After a fall,
whether it’s just a minor one or something more serious, fear can take over and
become a huge obstacle to overcome when you’re trying to get back to where you
were before the incident.
Fear robs you of your confidence, which in turn robs you of enjoying one
of your passions in life - your horse. Oftentimes we feel guilty because we
don’t want to ride the horse we have enjoyed, trusted and loved to ride so
much in the past. We are often embarrassed, as well, not wanting to tell anyone
we have lost the confidence to ride because we are afraid that would seem weak
or silly to others. Sometimes we begin making excuses not to ride such as “I
don’t have the time” or “ I’m too tired today, it was a long day at work”
or
“The weather is not good for it” and so on. That, in turn, brings more bad
feelings - guilt and sadness about not wanting to be with your beloved
horse.
When you’re having all these feelings your horse is picking up on them.
Horses need a confident leader and when you become nervous or anxious your horse
loses confidence in you as a leader and more problems can occur. This becomes a
vicious cycle - the more fearful you become the less trust your horse has in
you, so basically you are feeding off each others’ fear and lack of confidence.
The most important thing anyone can do is admit their fear to
themselves, to their horse and to the people around them. It can be very
difficult to admit to a fellow horse person that you have lost your confidence
to ride. Some people will understand while others won’t. Friends or riding
companions who advise you to “Just get back on that horse and ride,” aren’t
helping you, even though they believe they are helping. In some cases taking
that advice may make matters worse for you and your horse. The best advice is
to find a friend or family member you can confide in and who will help you work
through the problem. If possible find a professional riding instructor who has
had experience dealing with adult riders with fear issues.
Since you have lost your confidence and your horse has lost his/her
confidence in you as a leader you need to do something to start building trust
again. Doing ground exercises with your horse can often aid in getting some of
that confidence back. Do simple obstacles such as walking around cones or
barrels, walking over ground poles or through a labyrinth. These exercises can
very easily be transferred to mounted work. You should always work at your own
speed and within your comfort zone, whether doing ground work or riding. Again,
having a friend, family member or a professional helping you with these
exercises is better than working alone.
Once you begin working your horse under saddle again you need to work on
relaxing in the saddle. As a rider you are always telegraphing how you feel to
your horse. Try just sitting on your horse and taking deep relaxing breaths as
you would in a Yoga class. You will find that when your body relaxes so will
your horse. When you feel you are tensing up while riding just take some deep
breaths and relax. Don’t be afraid to take your time and do some ground
exercises. Then ride in an arena or an enclosed area for a time - there is no
shame in that. When you are comfortable and feeling confident again take a
short trail ride with a friend, but again at your own speed.
You will find that the sooner you admit to yourself that you have lost
your confidence and need help, the sooner you can work through the fear and get
back to enjoying your horse again. Don’t let pride or fear (or both) rob you of
your passion in life or of the special relationship that has grown over the
years between you and your horse.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Seasoned Riders I Have Known
Fellow Seasoned Rider:
My name is Cheryl and I'm the editor of Seasoned Rider magazine. Here is a little background on me. I have been an equine journalist since 1987 and I have been the editor of an equine publication since 2001. I have been a horse owner since 1975, a riding instructor and trainer since 1989. Good grief that's makes feel seasoned, oh well that's what it's all about. This is my first effort with a blog, but it's certainly a form of writing and I am a writer, so here we go.
Reflecting back I realize have met many Seasoned Riders in my life, but didn't realize it at that time because I was too young. Back in the early 1980's I boarded my horse at a stable. A gentlemen named Bud worked at the stable. Bud had been around horses his whole life and had been a working cowboy when he was younger. He always wore cowboy boots, cowboy hat, jeans and demin jacket. This was around the time the movie Urban Cowboy was popular and so dressing like a cowboy was in vogue, but Bud he wasn't dressing up - that was who he was.
He had this spunky paint gelding that sometimes would buck a little when being ridden, but that didn't bother Bud, in fact that was how he came to have the gelding - nobody else wanted him. If I remember correctly the horse was a registered paint, but his barn name was Bugger (sorry,but that's what Bud called him). Bud would take carrots out to him sometime in the evenings or after a long trail ride. He would give him baths and when the California winter got a little damp and cold he would even throw a blanket on the gelding. It was pretty obvious what he thought of his gelding.
Bud sat a horse like you would expect a cowboy to sit a horse - heels down, sitting straight in the saddle. I was too young to realize what a great horseman he was then, but looking back he was a excellent horseman. He was light on the reins and truly rode with his legs. His gelding would do anything he asked of him including side passing and doing flying lead changes. Again, I was too young and inexperienced then to realize how talented he was.
Bud was friendly with everyone, but only rode with a few people and I was lucky enough to be one of the few. He and I spent a number of Sunday mornings out riding - before other people arrived at the stable. We would go over to the nieghboring stable where they had a make shift race track and, yes, we would race our horses sometimes. Some might say that wasn't a good idea, but it was fun and we both had complete control of our horses. It was a real honor to go riding with Bud.
I'm not sure how old Bud was at that time. I think he had a grown child (or children) so I would say he was a Seasoned Rider. Bud was just one of number of Seasoned Riders that I have met over the years.
Well, I guess that's it for now. We will be hosting a launch party next month for the magazine - both online and in the real world.
Until next time enjoy your horses and horse friends too.
My name is Cheryl and I'm the editor of Seasoned Rider magazine. Here is a little background on me. I have been an equine journalist since 1987 and I have been the editor of an equine publication since 2001. I have been a horse owner since 1975, a riding instructor and trainer since 1989. Good grief that's makes feel seasoned, oh well that's what it's all about. This is my first effort with a blog, but it's certainly a form of writing and I am a writer, so here we go.
Reflecting back I realize have met many Seasoned Riders in my life, but didn't realize it at that time because I was too young. Back in the early 1980's I boarded my horse at a stable. A gentlemen named Bud worked at the stable. Bud had been around horses his whole life and had been a working cowboy when he was younger. He always wore cowboy boots, cowboy hat, jeans and demin jacket. This was around the time the movie Urban Cowboy was popular and so dressing like a cowboy was in vogue, but Bud he wasn't dressing up - that was who he was.
He had this spunky paint gelding that sometimes would buck a little when being ridden, but that didn't bother Bud, in fact that was how he came to have the gelding - nobody else wanted him. If I remember correctly the horse was a registered paint, but his barn name was Bugger (sorry,but that's what Bud called him). Bud would take carrots out to him sometime in the evenings or after a long trail ride. He would give him baths and when the California winter got a little damp and cold he would even throw a blanket on the gelding. It was pretty obvious what he thought of his gelding.
Bud sat a horse like you would expect a cowboy to sit a horse - heels down, sitting straight in the saddle. I was too young to realize what a great horseman he was then, but looking back he was a excellent horseman. He was light on the reins and truly rode with his legs. His gelding would do anything he asked of him including side passing and doing flying lead changes. Again, I was too young and inexperienced then to realize how talented he was.
Bud was friendly with everyone, but only rode with a few people and I was lucky enough to be one of the few. He and I spent a number of Sunday mornings out riding - before other people arrived at the stable. We would go over to the nieghboring stable where they had a make shift race track and, yes, we would race our horses sometimes. Some might say that wasn't a good idea, but it was fun and we both had complete control of our horses. It was a real honor to go riding with Bud.
I'm not sure how old Bud was at that time. I think he had a grown child (or children) so I would say he was a Seasoned Rider. Bud was just one of number of Seasoned Riders that I have met over the years.
Well, I guess that's it for now. We will be hosting a launch party next month for the magazine - both online and in the real world.
Until next time enjoy your horses and horse friends too.
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